When you lead first, with our dating tips, Magic follows ….The fast repartee and clever witticisms are only the fabric upon which ideas are being exchanged between the genders. However, perhaps you’re more intrigued in applying information that leads to something tangible. Be clear in your own mind what you want. Be realistic about your Must Haves and qualities that are nice to have. Have you ever wondered what it was that attracted a man to a woman, or vice versa? What it is about one specific individual that seems to make them irresistible to the opposite sex? Why, when everyone else is sitting home on a Friday night, they might have three dates with plans for breakfast the next morning? There are a number of different factors to be considered, but let us first take a look at the core of the situation: the science of attraction.
Ten Things That Attract Men
- Your fashion sense
- A Tempting fragrance
- High emotional IQ (EQ)
- If You Smile a lot
- Debate with him, however do not lose it
- Be Naughty
- Do not be Judgmental
- Do not show him you are all his. Let him work for it. Make him chase you.
- Be passionate about something
- Be kind to others
The central component in the selection of a mate lies in the evolutionary need to perpetuate the species. Therefore, the stronger of the species were always chosen by members of the opposite sex more for reproductive purposes.
It was primarily the males and females who had proved themselves in battle that attracted the greatest number of possible mates; they would then choose from the strongest of those, and nature’s endless circle would go on, with genetics ensuring their progeny were given the best opportunity to make a start in life.
This is the reason that the physically fit individuals receive the most attention from members of the opposite sex; it is an inbred attraction to those that are considered to be the most able physically to survive in their environment.
Strength and survival of the fittest is also a matter that involves our pheromones. Pheromones are chemically secreted molecules that are produced and carried through an airborne route, causing an incredible sexual response in animals. The belief is that it allowed the animal to locate a mate with whom they would have the greatest likelihood of producing an offspring with a strong immune system. It was previously believed that humans had lost the ability to be attracted by pheromones; however, recent studies have shown that this may not necessarily be the case. A great deal of research in the role that pheromones play in human attraction is still a matter of speculation.
The bottom line is that all scientific evidence pertaining to the attraction of one human to another lies in the potential to produce strong offspring. Pheromones will grant an offspring the best possible combination of immune systems to guarantee their well being. Physical attraction guarantees that the child will have the best chance of physically surviving to grow to adulthood. Given this, the scientific evidence presented supports the baseline upon which all human attraction is founded, and this would appear to support the theory of survival of the fittest. True love makes us the best we can be! Men Sign-Up Women Sign-Up