Paying Attention To The Woman In Your Life
Communication is such an important factor in all relationships, business and personal alike, that it should come as no surprise that we need to discuss it for our purposes here. What is communication, after all? It is the two-way interaction that occurs, both verbally and non-verbally. What is said with actions is as important, if not more so, than what is said with words. But we will focus our attention on the importance of verbal communication and what it will mean for your relationship. Keep in mind that when I talk about how things affect your relationship, I’m mainly concerned with your success in the realm of seduction.
Communication with words is something we all do on a daily basis. But, just as you’re asked to give an impromptu speech, being asked to communicate in a particular situation just makes many of you cringe, lock up, and find yourself at a loss for words. Why? Mainly because when you have to think about what to say, you suddenly become concerned about what you’re saying. But if you just let it happen without any expectations, somehow everything works out a whole lot better.
Given this, think of your past relationships and where the communication failed. Was it something you said in a particular conversation that you later came to regret? Or was it something she said that you either treated as unimportant or simply didn’t hear at all? Or could it have been a time when you should have said something to her, but didn’t, and the results were equally regrettable? Surely all of these have happened to nearly everyone at one time or another. The trick is to not let these past failures define how you communicate now, or in the future, with your current relationship.
Talking is something we all think about when we hear the word communication. Unfortunately, the first thought that comes to mind is the wrong one if, you’re looking for a good relationship with the potential for romance. Talking will get you nowhere, and worse, it may cause things to regress or even to fall apart. When you talk, you’re expecting someone else to listen.
But what about the listener? When does she get the chance to be heard? That’s why it’s so much better to change your view from one of simply talking, to one where you see communication as participating in a conversation.
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