Writing a Great Profile – Dating Service
Ok, the time has come. You have joined an on-line dating service or two. Now you must write that all important profile. The one that will attract attention and reel in the man or woman of your dreams. But where to start? Maybe writing isn’t even something you do all that well? Even so, you can do this.
Be absolutely honest about yourself. You’re looking for that man or woman who will like, or maybe someday love you, the real you! Examine past relationships and list the things that you liked and those you did not. If he smoked in the house and you hated it, you won’t like it any better the next time. If you love cats and will always want to own one or more, say that you are an animal lover and want indoor pets. Someone who hates cats or is allergic to them is not the guy or gal for you.
Accent the things that make you unique. If you play the piano well, you really want Mister or Miss Right to appreciate it. If you run in marathons, a couch potato is not a good match. If you love art, you really don’t want a man who thinks Picasso is an ice cream flavor.
Describe the things that are vital in your life. If volunteering is the one thing that makes you feel useful and worthwhile, you want someone who would support you if not join you in your volunteer projects. When you get beyond superficial things, you will attract men or women who share your values.
Invest in your on-line profile by hiring a professional photographer for your first on-line picture. This is so important. The picture is the first thing men see. The second thing is, they read what you have written about yourself. Some on-line dating sites even provide you with a list of photographers in your area that specialize in on-line dating site photos. Get Date Ready!