Dating Mistakes to Avoid — Professional Matchmaker
While you search for that special lady, the one of your dreams, you can do a lot of things right. You can also, do a lot of things wrong, and this will guarantee failure and/or a broken heart. In the real world, being aggressive, demanding perfection and even white lies are all ingredients for success. When you are dating on-line and off-line (Matchmaking), those same qualities are killers.
There is a big difference between being aggressive or confident and being too aggressive, over-confident, or just plain sleazy from a woman’s point of view. If you push too hard for a face-to-face, you will come across as being too aggressive. Remember that, you are not trying to close a business deal. Keep the relationship progressing at a slow but steady pace. Patience is the key.
Nobody is perfect. We are all flawed in some way or another. If you expect the woman to be perfect, you will always be disappointed. Demanding perfectionism in your work is one thing. However, demanding perfectionism from a friend, co-worker or a lady you are interested in, is not acceptable. It will not happen. Expect flaws and just deal with them. Decide the ones you can live with and those you can not.
Be honest from the beginning of a relationship. The truth will come out eventually. Remember, to refrain from being too aggressive, do not expect to ever find perfection, or put on a false front. Following these basic suggestions will provide a better outcome and will make your dating experience more enjoyable.