What to Talk About On a Date
You want to have fun on your date and we want this for you, as well. The dating conversation should be interesting and stimulating to both parties. Body language always speaks first in any conversation.
When you are confident your body relaxes, becomes more open, you lean in, smile, and become more animated.
When you are tense or ill at ease, you’ll be sitting back, crossing your legs, perhaps arms are folded, your mouth will barely break a smile, and your eyes will be searching the room.
Knowing this will allow you to convey confidence with your body language.
Your verbal conversation skills will largely be judged on how well you can create a conversation that your partner enjoys. Ultimately, this leads to getting more dates. If you think this is obvious, yes it is!
The question is how to create an interesting conversation.
Your dating conversation will be comprised both of asking and answering questions. If you ask the right questions, your partner will have fun. Ask the wrong questions, they will ditch you. Being evasive or less than honest when answering her questions, she will ditch you, quicker.
Questions are powerful.
Funny thing is that when a person is asked a direct question they feel obligated to answer it. Here are some conversation starter question ideas for your first date:
- What do you love to do in your spare time?
- What do you particularly enjoy about that?
- If you could go on a fantasy holiday, anywhere in the world, where would it be? And what would you do?
Your questions will cause your date to recall their past pleasant experiences and, share them with you. Getting to know that special woman is about what you can gather from the communication, both verbal and body language. And the more you know, the better your chances are. If you plan to keep the relationship moving forward, you will have to find out as much as you can.
But the last thing you want to do is to upset her.
This is a sure way to kill your chances for romance. First of all, give her a chance to respond, and to start a conversation. There is really no better way to get to know her than through the interaction you have in conversation. What you learn through communication will serve as a great starting point. Many people think that all women or men like the same things, which simply is not true.
Although many women have number of things in common, there are an equal number of things, they do not. The same can be said for men. Ultimately, it all comes back to what you can learn. While it is helpful to get a few tips from her friends, family, and acquaintances, too much of this fact-finding will make her feel more like a suspect. So it’s back to what you can find out for yourself. And the best possible way to do that is to get her in different settings and see what happens. Get Date Ready now.
