Four Tips To Sustain A Relationship

Four Tips To Sustain A Relationship

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Is It Important To Keep Romance Alive in A Relationship?

Regardless of whether you in a relationship, cohabiting or married, troubles can arise, and often do, attributed to a common cause, the lack of romance in the relationship. To foster a strong, and fulfilling relationship with a significant other or spouse, it’s important to keep the romance alive.

One of the best ways to keep romance alive is quite simply, the concept of affection. Unfortunately, many couples get into a routine, a comfortable groove in their daily life. This often leads to losing touch with one another. Creating a down spiral, to where they no longer hold hands, kiss, or even talk about their day. It is important that you prevent this from happening in your relationship. If you allow the relationship to reach this point, it often spells trouble. Express your love and appreciation  often, both in action and words for your significant other or spouse.

Does personality figure in sexual attraction?

Yes, but so does your perception of a potential mate’s personality! What does this tell us?

Often times we prefer a certain personality type, which attracts you to a person, initially. Given this, let us set that aspect aside, for a moment. The actual personality of a person, can only be verified through close interaction through time.  It’s your perception of a potential partner that attracts you to him or her. Whether the person of your affection truly has that kind of personality or not, is questionable at best. This would probably account for a statement commonly heard from men and women on their failed relationships: I thought he or she was this kind of person.

How does attraction figure in relationships?

You have probably heard that attraction is a prelude, or a factor towards a relationship. Most probably, at least in the beginning, but attraction alone cannot make a relationship work. It is the attraction that makes you notice a person of the opposite sex. But once you get to know the person more, attraction is merely one consideration. Shared values, dreams and passions, compatible personality become more significant in long-term relationships.

Should I stop trying to be attractive?

Physical attraction is still a precursor. Remember, biology predisposes us to choose the partner with the healthiest genes. Where your emotions are concerned, would you want to spend time with a person who feels insecure about him or herself? Probably not! There is wisdom in knowing yourself: who you are, your beliefs, values, and dreams. Don’t pretend to be something you are not. When you are healthy in all aspects, an individual sense of self-security matters, perhaps even beyond attraction. But remember: do these things for yourself! Only then, can you truly harness your attractiveness as a person! Never settle for less than your heart’s desire. Start Your Journey Now!

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