How To Fall In Love 101 — Relationship Experts
This article will help you especially if you are kind of rusty at this sort of thing. No worries everyone has to begin somewhere. Hello and welcome to Matches By Design. A Dating coach is similar to having a private teacher to help you to learn how to date. We’re here to help you to stop making mistakes and attract and hold onto, the love you deserve. Find, and keep the relationship of your dreams. A committed relationship is unique and complex. People often repeat their relationship mistakes, again and again. They lack the knowledge and skill set to create successful partnerships. Our attitudes and behavior are reflected in our relationships. The best way to find and attract your life partner is to be a happy, successful single person living the life you want. Be patient and discerning! Here, we will give you an overview of what we offer our clients.
Lesson 1: Self Confidence
Its time to become one of the few, the proud, a heart breaker. This is where self confidence comes into play. Starts with having a positive attitude about yourself. No one is going to notice you if, you do not think you are worth being noticed. If there is something about yourself you are dissatisfied with, address it. Be the partner you seek. Live your life authentically. The more you express who you really are, the easier it will be to attract a great partner. There is much to be said about dressing tastefully, being well groomed, and clean. Take a close look at your wardrobe and decide to keep things that flatter your body shape–whether, slim, average or large, we can still dress tastefully and be stylish from head to toe.
By the way, we offer image enhancement services for clients, but that is a different topic. However, it is important. Our physical appearance is our first connect with another and, will help a prospect to decide if you are worth a second glance. By projecting our best self, we improve the odds of attracting the partner, we seek. And please, understand, I am merely touching base of each subject briefly to give you an idea of what it is like navigating the dating world today.
Lesson 2: Breaking the Ice
This involves starting a conversation with someone you do not know. Be yourself. Forget about cheesy pickup lines, they never work. Say hello, and introduce yourself. Make some conversation, and if you are a guy, ask her out.
Lesson 3: The Art of Conversation
This begins by listening and asking questions. Give your prospect a sincere compliment. For example, your questions may include: What do you do for a living? What do you like to do for fun? Then, wait, for the other person to engage.
Lesson 4: Start Sharing
To get close to someone, you have to start sharing something about yourself. What are you passionate about? What do you love? Do not be afraid to share this side of yourself.
Lesson 5: Make Her Feel Special
Start with something small, to let her know you care. Nothing big, you do not want to scare her off.
Lesson 6: Getting Close
This is becoming intimate. Getting to first base! But to get to first base, you have to make it up to bat. Be natural! Stay away from tacky lines. Use your eyes. Look at her when she is talking. And if she is looking back at you in the same way, she is giving you a green light!
Lesson 7: Common Ground
This is a give and take. And, switch it around.
Lesson 8: Follow Your Heart
Most people fall in love with the superficial attributes, rather than shared values, similar life goals and lifestyles and the same relationship requirements and needs. Going into a relationship with our eyes open enables one to make choices that are in alignment with our life goals. Trust your gut, and follow your heart. And always be honest with yourself and the person you are with.
The overwhelming majority of people have had very little training in interpersonal skills.
Relationship Core Values:
1. Communicate positively and effectively
2. Know what you want and need
3. Take personal ownership
4. Appreciate and manage our differences
5. Embrace commitment to the relationship
6. Foster trust and integrity
7. Nurture love and intimacy
8. Grow and evolve consciously
In the Ideal Relationship both partners are self aware and are compatible. This means they are similar in values, have a shared life vision and goals, and have their relationship core values and needs met. We hope this information has been helpful. And remember! We are responsible and accountable for the success of all our relationships. Beginning with our choice of a partner and how we choose to show up in the relationship. Get the Relationship You Want! Find Your Love Now