Compatibility Levels
Dating advice is designed to get the person we feel is out of our league. And if that guy or gal is incompatible with us, well, we don’t really want to hear it. We spend most of our time studying self-improvement, presentation, and the mastery of social minutiae. This is an attempt to excel in our romantic and sexual attraction.
What About the Law of Attraction? Is there a clear set of rules that allows two people to fall for each other? Is attraction a matter of chemistry? Maybe.
The attraction between animals of the opposite sex is all about chemicals called pheromones. Scientists believe that animals (females), both mammals and insects send out chemical signals to the male of their species that, their genes are different. This gene diversity is important in producing offspring with better chances of survival.
The perfume industry has capitalized on pheromones as a means to increase sexual attractiveness to the opposite gender.
Most scientists assert that these do not exist. But researchers caution that preference for a male odor is affected by the female of the species during ovulation, it influences food that men eat, and perfumes and other scented body products.
You cannot force a relationship.
If the two of you are too different or have different goals for the relationship, the relationship is set for failure. It’s important to communicate your needs from the relationship. This ensures both are satisfied with disagreements at minimum.
Compatibility can be difficult if one person in the relationship is needier than the other.
If one individual wants their space and the other is very needy, this can make dating difficult. Dating problems arise when communication skills are not up to par. You have to be comfortable with the person. Being able to communicate will show if the two of you are compatible. If you do not have these two things in place, then you might just consider a good friendship.
Summary
Most dating problems occur because either the two of you are not compatible or there’s a lack of communication. Difficulty in self expression or being vague about what you want, is a common cause of problems in a relationship.
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